James Clear, Atomic Habits: An easy & proven way to build good habits & break bad ones, Penguin Random House, 2018.
Rules: make obvious, fun, easy, satisfying. ie, hide 'bad' habit stimuli, see them as unpleasant, hard, unsatisfying, to break ‘bad’ habit.
-the more tasks you can handle without thinking, the more your brain is free to focus on other areas.
-little stresses compound into serious health issues.
-knowledge builds up, like compound interest. (buffett)
-if you see people as angry, unjust, selfish, you will see them everywhere.
-the more you help others, the more others want to help you. Build up connections (~ knowledge)
-not how successful you are right now. Your current trajectory rather than current results.
-fall in love with the process rather than the product. True long-term thinking is goal-less thinking. Your commitment to the process will determine your progress.
-true behaviour change is identity change. Start habit from motivation but stick with it because it becomes part of your identity. Must believe. Your habits are how you embody your identity. (when you write each day you embody identity of creative person.) Identity: proof in pudding. (what you do is what you are.) process of building habits is the process of becoming yourself.